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		<title>#apartmenttherapy, oh no you didn&#8217;t.</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was surprised when I saw this article posted on Apartment Therapy early this week. The post is titled Making it Work: Working From Home With Kids.  Immediately, I found the headline a bit of a paradox.  I think we can &#8230; <a href="https://southmarketstreet.com/apartmenttherapy-oh-no-you-didnt/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was surprised when I saw <a title="Making it Work: Working From Home..." href="http://www.apartmenttherapy.com/working-from-home-with-kids-making-it-work-184328" target="_blank">this </a>article posted on Apartment Therapy early this week.</p>
<p>The post is titled <em>Making it Work: Working From Home With Kids</em>.  Immediately, I found the headline a bit of a paradox.  I think we can all agree it takes oodles of work to keep a household running while wrangling children.  And because of this I think it impossible to hold a full-time 40+ hour-a-week job along with acting as primary caregiver.  In fact, where I work, I have signed an agreement saying I am NOT a primary caregiver to anyone when I&#8217;m working from home.  I have also agreed that my work remains seamless whether working in or out of the office.</p>
<p>After reading the article a few times, I came to understand the writer may <em>imply</em> she&#8217;s not working a traditional job that&#8217;s even close to full-time hours, but she never actually says what job she&#8217;s doing or how many hours a week she&#8217;s expected to put in or if it&#8217;s on a project-by-project basis.</p>
<p>To have a headline like <em>Making it Work: Working From Home With Kids</em>, and then follow it up with this photo gave me the willies.  Look at this woman in the photo.  She&#8217;s got a glass of wine and a bowl of berries in front of her.  And she&#8217;s wearing a lovely afternoon cocktail dress.  She&#8217;s working?  It looks more like she&#8217;s<a title="Pinterest" href="http://pinterest.com/" target="_blank"> pinning images </a>onto boards called &#8220;Suzy&#8217;s 5th Birthday Party&#8221; or &#8220;Backyard Inspiration&#8221; or watching <a title="The Mindy Project" href="http://www.fox.com/the-mindy-project/" target="_blank">The Mindy Project</a> on Hulu.  Thank goodness Apartment Therapy explains at the end of the post that <a title="Jamie's Something Old, Something New..." href="http://www.apartmenttherapy.com/jamies-something-old-something-new-home-tour-174322" target="_blank">this image is actually extracted from a house tour photo session</a> with a gal named Jamie posted a while back on their site.  I feel like a more appropriate image could have been chosen.</p>
<p><a href="http://southmarketstreet.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/ApartmentTherapyCover_workingfromhome2.19.13.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1496" alt="ApartmentTherapyCover_workingfromhome2.19.13" src="http://southmarketstreet.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/ApartmentTherapyCover_workingfromhome2.19.13.jpg" width="540" height="810" /></a></p>
<p>This is also the kind of post that teeters dangerously on the edge of understanding what work from home actually <em>looks</em> like or <em>is</em> like.</p>
<p>Case in point, my husband was psyched when I became mobile (working away from the office, at home, generally) one day a week.  He said to me,  &#8221;This is going to be great when we have kids.&#8221;</p>
<p>Why exactly?</p>
<p>&#8220;I mean, you can be at home when the baby is little and take care of her while you work.&#8221;</p>
<p><i>Oh man.  I had to reel him in.</i>  I explained that when I&#8217;m working at home, I have the very same load I have at the office and while I may be dressed differently (hey, sweatpants!), I am still busy all day.  I don&#8217;t have time to change a nappy or warm a bottle or entertain a toddler.  I hope this made sense to him.  I think it did.</p>
<p><em>Making it Work: Working From Home With Kids</em>?  I don&#8217;t think so.</p>
<p>Apartment Therapy received quite a few comments from other readers on the topic.  <a title="Apartment Therapy Comments" href="http://www.apartmenttherapy.com/working-from-home-with-kids-making-it-work-184328#comments" target="_blank">Read on!</a></p>
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